No matter how many setbacks you encounter in life, consider them as part of your stepping stone to your fortune. You will realize how fulfilling it can be when you focus your state of mind on the positive things life brings instead of the problems.
People who have been able to make a difference in the lives of others have a legacy that lasts a lifetime. They will not become what they were and what they were if not because of the difficulties and struggles they faced in life. They went from failure to failure before they succeeded.
Failure can actually be an impulse for success if we use it to our advantage. When we welcome the trials as something to learn, we become our best version. Although it is not easy and it really stings, but if we look at it from a different perspective, we are not wasting our precious time because overcoming one misfortune in another will make us stronger and more determined.
Sometimes we feel impatient for the wasted time we've spent on something, but often there is always better out there waiting to be discovered and explored. We cannot change what has happened in our lives, but the way we react to these circumstances has an impact on what will happen next in our lives.
We cannot decide when and where our troubles are. These happen when we least expect them as an unexpected guest who surprisingly comes to us. There is nothing we can do except accept it and embrace it as part of life. Who knows, it might bring us good fortune.
I believe everything happens for a reason. Instead of whining, we'd better go ahead and do something to make it good fortune. Misfortunes can only become stepping stones to success when we embrace them with enthusiasm and hope in our hearts. When we aren't complaining, there is a chance for us to understand why something has to happen. By doing this, we are able to manage our unhappiness better than expected.
When we are able to grasp the lessons that misfortunes offer, it can help us become more aware of our life. Living conscientiously is a vital step in seeing misfortunes differently. When we don't blame others for our bad luck or our fate; we realized that the rest will follow. Blaming others for our situation will not help us grow; the very reason why misfortune keeps repeating itself.